Adds BDSM-style restraint with light bonds and teasing touches to build anticipation and heighten desire.
Tie and tease massage, also known as BDSM massage, combines light restraint with the slow, deliberate build of sensual technique. Bespoke Tantric Massage has been London's home of sensual massage since 2015, and no two tie and tease sessions are the same. What is included is agreed with our reception team when you book, so the session is shaped around what you actually want from it.
Call, text or WhatsApp 07548 845573. Our reception team is available between 10am and 1am, every day of the week.
Tie and tease massage is a sensual massage that introduces elements of bondage and domination. Your therapist restrains you, then uses a range of techniques to tease and build sensation, holding the moment rather than rushing it. The restraint is the point: when you cannot direct what happens next, every touch that does happen lands harder.
It is frequently searched for as BDSM massage, and in London the two names are used to mean the same treatment. It sits alongside our tantric massage and erotic massage in London as one of the more intense experiences we offer.
Every element below is optional, and every one is agreed before your session rather than assumed on the day.
Before your session is confirmed, our reception team talks through the options with you: what you would like included, what you would rather avoid, and which therapist is the right match. That conversation happens when you book, not when you arrive, so you are never asked to negotiate anything in the moment.
Restraint only works when you are completely confident the session stops the moment you want it to. Tell our reception team where your limits sit when you book and they will brief your therapist before you arrive. Nothing outside what you have agreed will be introduced during the session.
Both introduce an exchange of control, but they are different experiences. Tie and tease is physical and playful, built on restraint, teasing and anticipation. Dark tantra massage goes further into surrender and psychological intensity, and tends to suit clients who already know they enjoy that dynamic. If you are not sure which fits, our reception team will talk you through both before you commit to either. Clients who would rather explore a scenario than a restraint often prefer our fantasy massage instead.
Sessions run as incall in discreet, luxury apartments, and as outcall to your hotel or residence across Central London. Search demand for tie and tease clusters around a handful of districts in particular, and we have therapists in all of them: Mayfair, Knightsbridge, Marylebone and Belgravia.
Every therapist on our roster is handpicked, professional, punctual and discreet. The therapists who offer tie and tease are experienced in restraint and teasing technique specifically, rather than simply willing to try it, and that difference is the whole experience. You can browse our gallery to see who is available and choose the therapist you would like.
Call, text or WhatsApp 07548 845573 between 10am and 1am any day of the week, or use our booking form. Bookings can be made for one hour, ninety minutes, two hours or longer. Tell the reception team you are interested in tie and tease and they will take you through the options and match you with the right therapist. If you have a question first, our FAQs may already answer it, or you can explore our other sensual massage treatments.